From Regret to Reinvention: Designing Your Life After Grad School with Ashley Jablow

Welcome back to Beyond the Thesis with Papa PhD!

This week’s guest is Ashley Jablo – founder of Wayfinders Collective and creator of Life Design School – who brings powerful insights for anyone feeling lost, stuck, or regretful after finishing grad school or stepping away from academia.

In this deeply honest and inspiring conversation, Ashley shares her own nonlinear journey from mission-driven nonprofit work to business school, government service, layoffs, and ultimately becoming a coach helping others navigate transition with clarity and creativity.

Together, we unpack the emotional realities of career shifts—especially after a PhD—and explore the tools that can help you move from burnout and regret to direction and purpose.

Ashley Jablow
Ashley Jablow is a coach, facilitator, and design strategist specializing in helping individuals navigate career and life transitions with clarity and creativity. She is the founder of Wayfinders Collective and the creator of Life Design School, a studio that blends design thinking, emotional intelligence, and coaching to guide purpose-driven reinvention. Ashley is also the author and artist behind 100 Days of Designing My Life, a guided journal series. Drawing on her diverse background in nonprofits, government innovation, and the private sector, Ashley empowers high achievers—especially PhDs and professionals in transition—to turn uncertainty into forward momentum.

🔍 In this episode

  • How to move beyond the shame of career detours and lost time

  • Why your PhD is never wasted—even if you leave academia

  • How to tap into your “onlyness” to carve your unique path

  • Ashley’s 4-step Life Design framework: Discover, Define, Imagine, Iterate

  • The importance of joy and micro-actions in gaining clarity

  • A sustainable, low-risk approach to navigating career transitions

  • Why talking to people beats researching alone

See the resources section below for Ashley’s links!

This episode’s resources:

  • Ashley’s The Clarity Kit workshop | Website
  • Wayfinders Collective | Website
  • The Power of Onlyness by Nilofer Merchant | Book

Thank you, Ashley Jablow!

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Agnieszka Piotrowska – Mental Health & Motivation in the PhD

Michelle Niemeyer – Bending Time, Beating Academic Burnout

Karina Machado – Being a Young Scientist in the Global South

Yamina Berchiche – From Bench to Biotech

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